*This is yet another shared topic via Blog Azeroth*
The question is simple. How do I, a self admitted addict of World of Warcrack balance my WoW time with my RL time?
The answer is simple. RL time? Wuzzat?
The question for me should be “How do you balance WoW with other games?” Now THAT is something I can answer.
I work full time, 40 hours a week. I work 4 days a week, so that gets me 10 hour days, with three days off. As a side note, this has to be the sexiest schedule EVER. 3 days off every week? Golden. Here’s a general idea of how my average work day goes:
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Wake up (10:00am)
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Poop (10:01am)
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Eat (10:10am)
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Prepare my lunch (10:25am)
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Go to work (10:30am)
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Work (11:00am-4:30pm)
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Eat lunch (4:30pm-5:00pm)
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Work (5:00pm-9:30pm)
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Go home (9:30pm)
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Eat dinner (10:00pm, includes cooking)
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Game (10:30pm-1:45am)
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Shower (1:50am)
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Bed (2:10am)
That, for me, is a standard work day. Here’s a standard day off:
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Wake up (sometime between noon and 4pm)
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Breakfast
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Game until I get hungry (usually 4-5 hours)
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Lunch
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Game until I get hungry (usually another 4-5 hours)
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Dinner
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Game until I fall asleep (usually 5-7am)
I am, in essence, an utter lose. I don’t have a girlfriend, so I don’t have any of those silly romantic commitments. That, and the family is pretty much content to let me do whatever I please, so long as I have a job and don’t mess around with the house too much. Yes, I live at home, no, I don’t live here for free. I pay my rent, I buy my food. I may be a hopeless bum, but HOT DAMN I pay for hopeless bumming!
No pets
So that leaves the only real commitment in my life is my silicon mistriss, the all powerful and seductive computer.
So, really, I have four powers to balance in my life. Eating, Sleeping, Gaming, and Working.
My work schedule is solid. 40 hours a week, the rest of the time is mine to do with as I see fit. I make efforts to always get at least 7 hours of sleep, usually 8. So that leaves gaming.
On work days, I usually have about 3 hours I can devote solely to the computer, whether I be blogging, daily questing, or puzzling over Mission 17 in Portal under advanced mode. On days off, I usually have… well, the entire day, usually, free for gaming to my hearts content.
So the true question is, what do I do for these periods of time? Gaming is a very time demanding hobby to have, after all, your average game is going to demand at least ten hours or so out of you for a proper play through. Obviously, some games are longer, some are shorter. For example, I did Portal, start to finish, in 3 hours, but easily logged 8 hours in The Witcher… the demo… >.>
To be completely honest, there is no active balancing act that is ever taken. Frankly, when I boot up ye olde PC, I end up playing whatever it is that I feel like playing that day. Sometimes, I’ll log in with the intent of doing a couple dailies, then end up doing battlegrounds all day. It happens.
Sometimes I’ll log in, do one daily, then switch to an alt and spend all day killing Murlocs in the Swamp o’ Sadness.
Sometimes I’ll log in, do a couple dailies, wonder if I can double rocket jump in TF2, and then I end up spending the next 6 hours playing 2Fort as a Soldier.
Sometimes I’ll get to the “Welcome” page, sit there a minute, then shut the computer down, rush over to a friend’s place, and play Rock Band until I literally cannot strum anymore, because my fingers are dirty traitors and utilize passive resistance after 12 hours. Jerks.
The point I’m kind of getting around to in meandering way is that WoW is not the only game I play. Not even close. And it rightfully isn’t.
I’m sure there are plenty of people out there who only play World of Warcraft. And you know what? I feel sorry for them. I really do. There are so many excellent games out there that restricting yourself to just WoW is… well… it’s sad.
How can you live with yourself if you haven’t played Portal? Did you even hear about Overlord? What about the sheer multi-player genius that is Team Fortress 2? Do you even know who Sam & Max are? Have you at least tried the demo for The Witcher? What about Peggle? Company of Heroes? Have you gotten to Expert Mode in Rock Band yet? Did you even give Gears of War a try?
See, I refuse to get permanently bogged into one game. There are just way too many awesome games I would completely miss if I did.
For example, I still haven’t touched the newest Supreme Commander expansion, and haven’t even bought World in Conflict yet. Half Life 2, Episode 2, sits all dejected on my hard drive. Installed and never played.
It’s so sad.
And what about movies? TV shows? Books and manga? Have you seen the sheer martial arts genius that is Avatar, the Last Airbender? Have you kept up with Full Metal Alchemist? When was the last time you watched a classic comedy such as Liar Liar with Jim Carrey, or Fists of Fury with straight faced Asian Man #3?
The balance is not between WoW and Real Life, WoW is a part of Real Life. At least it is for me.
Things like gaming, movies, and so on, that’s not somehow separate from my life. It is just as integral into my life as anything else. WoW and other games are just as important to my day to day being as pooping is.
Is that sad? Is it depraved?
I don’t care. I work, I play, I eat, I play some more. It’s a great life.
Going from raiding Serpent Shrine, to defending a control point in Dustbowl, then completing a brief side quest to have sex with a bar maid, all in the same night… this is the life of a gamer.
A life I am proud to lead, and have a blast leading.
Balancing? Pfft, that’s the developers job.
Awesome post.
Have you seen Cowboy Bebop? Awesome much, no?
I’ve always been a fan of musical choreography, and some of the fight scenes there are just… spectacular.
Except that I am one of those sad people that just play WoW, this is a perfect description of me. Work full time, pay all my bills, make sure I get at least one cooked meal a day, no boyfriend/pets/children to take care of… so yeah, lots of game time
I am a christian WOW player. What does that mean? I play work 50hrs a week, I WoW about 10-15 hrs and then i go to church and church related activities about 10-20hrs. This is incredibly taxing on my raiding schedule. But reading your article made me realize that I am doing whats right and have no shame in saying “sorry guys bible study tonight” Lately I have steered away from raiding with people I know IRL mainly bc they bring out the worst in me. Nothing like “church boy” slipping and telling your IRL friend (F$%& yourself i did misdirect on you SHE SILENCES!!!”. Point is everyone has to balance out there time with things that are more important then lvling a toon or getting that next epic. Dont mean to preach on your blog just thought youd appreciate a different view.
Haha, while reading this, I was amazed how similar our lifestyles are. It is nice to know that there are other people out there that plays as much as me.
Forget guitar on expert mode, try drums on hard >_<
Lets see, I work full time on a swing shift so it ca be days some on some weeks and nights the others. I could be working 3 days on, 2 days off, 2 days on, 3 days off, 4 days on, 2-3 days off. That schedule can change from night to day time working. Every 4th week I get 7 full days off from the work schedule. I call that mini month vacation. That happens every month. Around that schedule I play WoW.
Ahhhh… the single life! I remember the days (unfortunately for me those days were pre-WoW). I now balance WoW with a wife, two daughters, and working on my Ph.D. My computer still gets her time, but it’s much less than before…
if it were only that easy….I am with NE Miller….wife, kid, work …all those demands make gaming time a difficult dance at best. I do miss the simple days of play play play
The thing that aggrivates me the most is those players who have NOTHING to do but play all day, its not because im jealous (well a little), but because they cant seem to comprehend why i cant raid EVERY night or why I cant just change my schedule to accomidate the game (like “why cant you make a 6 PM start?” “because thats dinner with my family” “you cant miss that 3 times a week? OMG your just not serious about the game!”
all i have to say is: GET OVER YOURSELF
and get a life
hehe …but they are partially right…. I am not serious about the game… serious is for a funeral or while at work ….
I play a G A M E to have F U N !
/nuff said
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I live the single life, and it’s great
. I’m in the unusual position of not wanting a girlfriend at the moment which has allowed me the luxury of growing a full beard (and not one of those pansy no.2 all over beards, I’m talking give me a few more month and I could be with ZZ top). I also only work 3-4 days a week, normally 3 giving me a whopping 4 days off a week to game to my hearts content. No I don’t live at home but wish I could as the rent would be cheaper
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Right that about sums it up for my life style so on to the topic:
GAMES
I have always played one game until I burn out on it or finished all content, thats just the way I roll. For example I clocked close to 150 hours on Final Fantasy X playing no other games for that period. In addition to this I only enjoy very few games as FPS tend to annoy me after about 2 hours. RTS games tend to bore me after I’ve done the solo missions and clocked up a few hours on the multi player content (It’s the repetition that gets to me, the same tactics over and over again). Punch em ups have just too little content to make them worth while (any game I can finish in 3-10 hours just leaves me feeling cheated). Platform style games (yes I know they are technically 3D but you know what they are under the fancy graphics) have the same content problem as Punch em ups, as for things like guitar hero something about them just makes my skin crawl. This realistically leaves me with the RPGs which universally have massive game content and generally have good story lines.
OTHER STUFF
I don’t spend all my time on PC and console gaming, I’m also a big anime fan and play a table top strategy game called Warhammer 40k in which you hand paint and build all the miniatures you use, and as I have been at it for 14 years (started when I was 11) I have become quite good at painting them and can spend up to 6 hour a model in an army containing 30 models. Yes that does mean that if I did nothing else but paint I would take over a week to complete an army but it is usually spread over a few month.
So in conclusion while the only game I play at the moment is WoW and while I do play a lot it is far from the only thing I do with my time …. Sorry for the long post but you did ask
I found my WOW/RL balance much improved when I got Dual monitors… Now I can Game – Talk to my RL friends on MSN without Alt tabbing – Watch a DVD ( as long as Im not in an instance or flying over zanger because then my processor chucks a fit. ) What scares me sometimes is what I used to do with my spare time before wow.. I manage to fit in a significant amount of time inbwteen working full time/seeing friends Going out… sometimes seeing a guy – Reading – Writing – and Singing.. It comes down to effective time management.. not as much sleep, and a Large coffee for breakfast – but I don’t play other games… Wow = recreation
I think if i introduced another game I’d have difficulty keeping the balance..